I seem to get pretty worried and concern when i see friends who are troubled and arent saying it. It's not about whether they share or not. It's just that when they choose to struggle by themselves and shut people off, it gets me pretty concerned, and most of the time I'm at a loss of what to do and feel like running away.
It's on the contrary though that I'm not so burdened when people are sharing with me their troubles and problems. Usually i'm more burdened knowing that my friend is struggling by himself/herself. If you dont wish to share becoz it's personal, it's okay. You can always tell me, "Rach, i'm tired/troubled. Can you just accompany me for a while?" If you dont want me to probe, i wont. unless i think its pretty serious.

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